Friday, May 30, 2008

a shocking event

two nights ago, a close friend of mine was robbed right in front of his house. he was in his porch closing the gate when 3 men came in with a 'parang' and threatened him.. he alerted the neighbours with by sounding the car alarm, thus the 3 men took off without taking anything,but was generous enough to have left him with severe injuries on his hands and shoulders. he is now in the hospital, badly wounded, with uncountable stitches and bandages. hope he gets well soon.

the incident really spooked me, it makes you feel that there is not a place where you will be totally safe.no..not even your own frontyard.
imagine someone taking out the garbage after dinner, and there are men waiting outside with a parang, all ready to charge in the house.. thinking of the possibilities of these dangers gives me the jitters.

there is a security patrol in my neighbourhood. it was set up by a group of concerned residents that had mutually agreed that we should not rely on the law enforcements to keep ourselves safe. it started with a simple engagement of a security company to patrol and guard the residential area. from there, they became a Residents' Association. with mom being one of the committee member. :)
the neighbourhood watch works in way that the 'taman' will have 3 guards patrolling every hour and will be guarded 24 hours. as it was agreed that the entrance to the 'taman' is fixed at one point, it is a one-way in, one-way out control. the residents have to pay a fee for the services, however it keeps their mind at ease, knowing that you can sleep peacefully at night, or at least take out your garbage at night without that fear in you. some of residents are actually complaining about the amount that is collected each month, and even made baseless accusations that the Residents' Association keeps part of it. urm, hullo? this is for your own safety, and besides the RA members are all in on a voluntary basis. my mom doesnt get paid for walking from house to house handing out flyers or whistles to the residents. is RM 80 such a big amount to part with each month, to get a peace of mind? sigh. different people have different perceptions i guess.

there is one particular resident, who refuses to follow the one way entrance, claiming that the exit is much further, so why should he take the longer way? sigh, can you believe a grown up man can have such immature thinking? well, here's the living proof.

according to mom earlier this year, DBKL wants all neighbourhood watch to be abolished.. claiming that it is illegal to fence up residential areas and set up guard houses. an appeal letter was sent to the respective parties to appeal against this order. this order has not been not actioned on yet, and if it does, we will need to comply to the law.but just a thought, what if every neighbourhood is not guarded by their own patrol guards.. who are we goin to rely on to keep us safe?

disastrous

it was a major disaster. a few clicks and i ruined it.

was trying to fit in a new template for my blog, downloaded a nice looking one and tried to use it... due to my insufficient skills in editing HTML and such... my whole blog layout went hay wire.. and it never turn out to be the one i wanted.

out of desperation, i deleted the blog, and reposted everything.. my 3 months of posts,all in 20 mins..sigh.. and i lost the comments as well. sighh

in the middle of creating the new page, as i was picking a template.. i looked at the green one which i used originally, and it still looked the best.. but i did not pick it, cos it'll be totally dumb as that was the one i tried to change from.. sigh

guess i'm not so tech savvy after all..

Thursday, May 29, 2008

in a daze

so much has happened these 2 weeks. i feel like i dun have time to stop and breathe.. kinda sounds like my own version of stop and stare. btw, i love that sound. can't seem to get it out of my mind.

Last whole week has been a tiring week with all the training going on, and had lotsa complicated discussions. both work and non work. sigh.. someone made me wonder if all guys have gone a lil more mushy than girls.. or am i the one with the big change?

managed to unwind a bit over the weekend, startin with Friday nite. catched up with an old friend, had dinner and drinks. Saturday was a quite day at home, was watching series the whole morning and in the afternoon was supposed to go help out as a volunteer with Tzu-Chi at Jusco Kepong. was there with my mom and sis, only to find out they don't really need help at Jusco as they have enough volunteers. ooh.. just to clear things up, they were collecting funds for the victims of the SiChuan earthquake. the most tragic topic lately. Volunteered to help them at their door-to-door funds collection this weekend though. They also have donation drives at markets and pasar malams.
It's a good thing. I should be keeping in touch with them more often, catching up where i left my voluntary work few years back.

Had an early start on Sunday, got up early to do some chores - cleaning, laundry, etc. Then, we left for Bentong bout 10am. Have decided to try the ever famous wan tan mee at Yuen Kee. Waited bout 30 minutes before they plopped down 6 bowl of messy looking noodles on our table.Nevertheless, the wait was worth it, as it was really good ! Have not had a good bowl/ plate wan tan mee for some time already.

Back at Grandma's house, i started to work on my report, will be having a post-mortem for the training that I've been attending on Monday morning. I started writing and writing.. until my cousin sis came in to chat with me. We catched up a lot of the past, bout how we lost my cousin bro in an accident, bout how she was treated by her MIL.. at the end, it left me tearing up. then i was saved by the bell. The ice-cream man ! :)

It was really a slow and lazy day in Bentong.. love how peaceful it gets at grandma's place. it has always been no 1 on my get-away list.. peace and quiet, cold breezy weather, and grandma's 'cincai' but absolutely yummy food. what else can i ask for? (best of all, no hotel charges ! :P)

so if i go missing for a week or two.. that's probably the first place you want to look. that is IF you are looking..

the long weekend

it's been such a long weekend..

been down to seremban, and met up with some dear friends, met some new friends and the next thing i know.. it was Monday already.. it's a good thing Monday was a public holiday ! yay!
haha the best things for a working person.. public holidays on a weekday ! :P

It's been such a long day... today is the 2nd day of training. Been attending a Foundation Level Management Course at Renaissance. Very informative and lotsa fresh ideas come in.. but.. 9 - 6pm.. is a killer ler. It's quite an eye opener cos I get to meet Assistant Managers from offices all across APAC. Very interesting and and aggressive bunch of people.

Well, now it's time for me to leave .. darn tired...

can't wait for Kuantan trip.. provided my leave application is approved.. sigh

thought of the day : would i be a good salesperson?

Cravings

had a sudden craving for nasi lemak, and the next thing i know, my feet was taking me to the stall in front of Wisma Jerneh, to get the a dose of drug to cure my craving.

It was a pack of many good things.. the steaming hot rice, with alongside with the crunchy peanuts and anchovies that i love, fresh sweet cucumber, and a dash of the slightly sweet and spicy sambal... it was just sinful. have decided to add in a 'telur goreng' today.. it was just nice, unlike some stalls which have their fried eggs, swimming in a puddle of oil . sometimes i think the oil is actually enough to fry more eggs ! LOL

the sambal did not help at all for my already sore throat and raspy voice. but oh well, who cares ! :P
never really bothered to 'kai hou' ( refrain from eating certain food when you are sick), Eg, to avoid cold drinks when you are coughing, avoid fried food, avoid fruits( what??) and so on. i know most of the dos and don'ts, and i tell them to people all the time, i just don't practise it. haha.
And the next person who tells me eating too much durian will result in a sorethroat, i will tell them, it never happens to me..or any of my family members.. we grew up eating durians.muahaha..

oh dear, it's 8.31am de.. back to training today. will frighten the new girls with my extreme coughing... ahem ahem ahem...